You’ve known her since forever. She’s the first friend you ever had. She’s the one you go to for honest advice and genuine support.
Now she’s about to embark on a new chapter in her life. She’s about to get married and she just asked you to be her maid of honor and you have to prepare a maid of honor speech for sister.
You’ve done your research on what the maid of honor’s duties and responsibilities are, you’ve made your lists and prepared your calendar.
You’ve held the bride-to-be’s hands throughout countless of decisions that needs to be made, you’ve given her all the encouragement and enthusiasm that you could possibly give.
Everything is all set except for this, the final responsibility of the maid of honor before the send-off; the duty that would put you in the limelight.
The one that would require some deep breathing, a shot of tequila or a glass of champagne, and a lot of courage. The maid of honor speech for your sister. Dun dun duuuun.
Kidding aside, it is a given that most people have no idea how to start with their speeches and are quite hesitant to stand in front of a group of people and share a part of themselves when they don’t normally do so.
It’s good that you’re here because we will help you find those words and maybe, hopefully, it will be something as close to perfection as a maid of honor sister speech can be.
Your Full Guide To Your Maid Of Honor Speech For Sister Dearest
Follow A Format
It is always helpful to have a format for your speech. This is so you don’t get lost in all those wonderful memories that you both shared and you go overboard. Below is a sample format you could follow:
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Introduce Yourself
a) You have to because unless this is a small gathering made up of very close friends and kin, there will always be people who may not know you on sight.
b) This is also your chance to thank all the people who helped make the celebrations memorable/joined the couple in celebrating this memorable milestone.
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A Fond Memory Or Two That You Have With The Bride
a) Just two, okay, maybe three. It is best if you keep your speech short and sweet. Remember that there is a line of people waiting to wish the couple well and have prepared speeches of their own.
b) Having a prepared list of things you would like to share would come in handy because these events are fraught with emotions. You will most likely be tempted to take a stroll down memory lane, lost in stories of your childhood. Don’t give in. Make it short and sweet.
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A Story Or Two About The Groom
He’s your sister’s knight in shining armour. He’s the perfect man for your girl. There is also a huge chance that he made sure you’re on his side when he popped the question. Tell the world about him and make them say “aww..”
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Why You Think The Couple Is Perfectly Mfeo (Made For Each Other)
You’re one of the most important people in the room for her. Her better half since she was born. Your opinion matters. Telling people why you think they’re good for each other is something they both would appreciate.
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Some Words Of Advice For The Couple
As mentioned above, your opinion matters. These words will have an impact on them and their relationship for years to come.
This is also your chance to give the groom one last bit of guidance on how to take care of your sister on her grumpiest of days (cue laughter from the room)
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Offer A Toast
Be it a simple salutation or a sentimental one, don’t forget to raise your glass to them.
Caution When Preparing Your Maid Of Honor Speech For Sister
While it is quite normal to make jokes during a speech, try to make the jokes light. You would not want to embarrass the bride on one of the most special days of her life would you?
Something to keep in mind, if you’re second guessing about including in the speech, it is always best to err in the side of caution and not mention it at all. Some of the huge no-no’s include:
- Stories about the ex
- Stories about specific arguments (past or recent) between the two of you
- Stories that would embarrass the bride/groom/both
- Jokes that are derogatory to any race/religion/culture
- Inside jokes between you and your sister
Time Your Completed Speech
There will be a lot of things that you would want to tell the couple during your speech but it is best to bear in mind that there are also people waiting to give wish them well.
People as happy for them as you. It is best to keep your speech at a more than five but less than ten minute mark.
Practice The Completed
- Remember all those public speaking moments? That time when you were asked to join a school presentation? Gave you the jitters? Yeah. Time to face the mirror with your hair brush in hand once again. Cliché as it may sound, practice really does help make it perfect.
Be Prepared, Confident, And Don’t Forget To Smile
- There’s always something about weddings that make people want to cry but since you’re her pillar of strength for the day, it is best to keep the tears in.
- When it’s time, stand up, take a deep breath, a gulp of champagne (for the nerves!) and give your best smile. This is a happy occasion after all and one that is filled with magic, wonder, and love.
There you have it, a comprehensive list of how a usual speech would be like.
You know what will make it extra special? You. Your words, your stories, your advice, your blessing. You are her sister. A change in her civil status will never change that.
You will always be that little bit of childhood that will never be lost for her and we’re quite sure she is the same to you. So make this one last bit of magic work for her. Good luck and remember to have fun as you go about preparing the best maid of honor speech for sister dearest.
You know she’s worth your time.
Want To Make It Even More Memorable For Your Sister?
If you want to take your speech to that next level and totally impress the audience (even a difficult one), I recommend that you check out the follow resource:
(Note: When you click the link, you’ll need to select “Maid Of Honor” for the appropriate resource.)